"I'm getting back with my ex after 6mnths and she's totally changed. She has her own chest of sex toys and wants to try these positions I never even herd of. I think she might have hook'd up with another guy while we were apart but I'm afraid to ask her. How do I ask her and what if she did?"
Simple, you say, "Babe, did you see anyone else while we were broken up?", and if she says yes, you go about the rest of yer day as you normally would; just with that extra little bit of knowledge...
Look, I know where yer head's goin with this and I have to tell ya to think rationally before acting like an idiot and doing or saying something completely retarded...
First off, it's been 6 months... this ain't the movies sir, this is real life; men and women don't take a couple years after a break-up to move on with their lives... in truth, ya have maybe a month (maybe two) before most people out of a relationship get back into dating... that's yer average person; some people start up again in a week or were already fucking someone before the break-up...
Secondly, you should be happy as fuck that she's into sex toys and wanting to try different positions; it means she more open to trying out new things... if you ever had a fantasy you wanted to play out or a position that you thought she'd never do when ya'll were first dating, now would be the time to ask her...
Thirdly, ask yer'self, does it really matter if she was with someone else while ya'll were apart?... whatever happened during that time, she's back with you now... with any luck, you'll last this time; but, not for long if you get hung up on what or who she might have done before getting back together...
Plus, let's say ya'll never got back together and yer now dating someone else... you wouldn't think there was a huge chance she was with someone before you?...
Now, I won't say to just ignore it and never bring it up; it'll end up eating at you that way... just remember that if she says she was with someone, than that's okay... we're only human and human's get lonely and seek comfort and comanionship when it presents itself (or when we're horny as fuck)... you, more than likely, would have done the same, had another woman appeared that made you feel good...
On a different point of view, whether she says yes or no, suggest that you both get tested... yes, that may start an argument; but, ya have to play it smart while also trying to be understanding...
And yer prolly asking, "Why should I get tested?"... Well, it'd be unfair to just ask her to do it... after all, how does she know you weren't banging other chicks during those six months...
Well, good luck to ya and Happy fucking
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