"how comes beeing the nice guy is a bad thing now? women always want an asshole and then bitch because they end up with an asshole. thay say i'm too nice. all my relationships end with women leaving me for assholes who treat them like garbage. why? are the nice guys destined to finish last? why do you think women date assholes? -- pissed nice guy"
Well, Pissed, yer asking a very familiar question that unfortunately has more possible answers than there are strippers named Candy... I've been in yer shoes, as have many men and women... it's like a bizarre attraction to the dicks/bitches of the dating world that just cannot be explained...
Well, it can be explained a little... Here are a few reasons I've heard over the years... some hold merit and others can sound really fucking stupid...
1: "He was sweet; but, he never let me have some alone time."
This has merit... one of the "downfalls" of nice guys is many become clingy and stifling to their partner... in any relationship, ya need some time to themselves now and then... when dating, know when to just have a day to yer'self or give yer partner their space...
2: "John treated me like an angel; but, Tom fucks me like a whore"... While not verbatim, I've heard something similar said right in front of me...
This is 90% Fucking Stupid with 10% Merit... It is really retarded to leave a good person for better sex; but, you do have to remember that sex is a part of a relationship... try to mix things up and keep things fresh and new...
3: "He was too nice to me and I don't deserve someone that nice."
....... This is REALLY Fucking Stupid with a side of needed therapy... when ya come into the realm of partners with major relationship issues, the best thing you can do is try to ride it out with them if yer serious; but, know when to get out when there just is no hope...
I believe in 3 months once the craziness starts; but, that's my opinion from personal experience being in a 3 year involuntary fist raping called a relationship... ANYWAY...
I can give ya plenty of examples and reasons why they ring true and sound retarded; but, the thing you need to focus on is not becoming a bitter fuck like many people do and hate everyone of the opposite sex because ya got burned by a bunch of dumbshits...
Life goes on... ya live, ya learn... Life's a garden, dig it... sorry, got on a motivational fortune cookie kick with a dash of Joe Dirt... ANYWAY...
Ya just keep doin what the rest of us keep doin; keep weedin through the cunts, dicks, assholes and bitches until ya find the one you can be happy with... sorry to make it sound very unromantic; but, that's the jist of it (better than the "plenty of fish in the ocean" line)...
All you can do is be yer'self, if they leave ya for that, then it wasn't really worth it. Being too clingy and a dull lay can be worked on; being someone yer not ain't worth it...
Good Luck and Happy Fucking
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