"There's a girl I like but she won't go out with me because she's waiting for some asshole to get his act together and be the kind of guy she wants him to be I really like her bro but she's not even paying any attention to any other guy Anyway I can make her see that this asshole isn't worth it?"
This is actually a very common story where someone wants their Mr or Miss Right; but, wants them out of Mr or Miss Wrong... and I'm sorry to say it; but, yer chances of making her see that the asshole in question isn't worth it is very unlikely... if she's got it in her mind that he's the one she wants, then telling her otherwise is like talking to a brick wall...
It's possible she thinks he's the best she can do... another possibility is that she thinks she can change him into a better person (yes, that old story)... She may even feel obligated to be with him...
Trust me, I've heard them all when it comes to someone loving someone whose not right for them...
"We have our good moments"
"He/She's different when we're alone together"
"I've never loved anyone like this"... (this one is maddening to hear when a teenager says it)...
List goes on and on...
Only thing I can tell ya is be patient; but, only if yer serious about her... even then, if she hasn't shown any interest with within the next two months (no need to wait too much longer than ya already have been), then I'd say move on and find someone who'll want to be with you...
If yer friends, them by all means, stay in touch and be as good a friend as you can be; other than that, it's best to know when to say when...
Big thing to remember is that there are plenty of other women out there... don't become obsessed with one person who won't even give you a second glance; something this woman has forgotten...
I'd say that to anyone in the same jam... while it's true that some things you have to work at, there are other things that just ain't worth the trouble...
By all means, go ahead and try to work at it; but, when it's obviously not going anywhere, know when to move on... trust me, it's better in the long run...
Hope everything works out for ya...
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